2004-09-08 at 8:40 a.m.

Yesturday was kind of an eventful one. While BigDaddy was over at my place we were chatting when someone knocked on my door. Well previous to this knock there was a call on my cell phone, which I did not answer. So back to the knock... I jump up and see who it is.

The same person who had called me was now at my door. Now, I find this rude that people/person show up at your door with out calling first and by calling first I mean talking with me and making sure it is okay to come over, cause I may be busy or have company already.

Well I thought about letting BigDaddy handle the door, then I told him to disappear and I answered the door. I acted like I was sick and that I was sleeping and told him to go away nicely. After 4 minutes of trying to get the guy to leave, he kept trying to look in my apartment to see if anyone was in their. Like it was his buisness.

Finally he leaves and well fast forward to the time when I came back to work to meet up with a patient. After the patient leaves, I get a visit from the lady who has the Voters Registration place next to our office. A guy came in their to see if they knew where I was. I get pissed when I hear this.

I go back into the office and look at the caller id display and see he called the office 4 times. So I leave a message on BD's phone and tell him the scoop we both agree I needed to talk to a police officer, so when I was stopping by McD's, there in the parking lot were two cops talking. I parked next to them and walked up and asked then what they thought of the situation.

One joked and asked if I had a boyfriend which I replied yes to, meaning BigDaddy and he told me to have my boyfriend beat his ass. But from a legal stand point he has to be warned first then if he does something I can file charges. So thats where were at now.

I'm thinking of calling him and leaving a message about the whole situation and how I want to cut all cords off and that if he doesn't understand to call me and we can talk or if he comes and sees me with out permission or my knowledge of before hand. I will take a restraining order out on him.

Some of you may be wondering if I was involved with this guy, no I was not. He tried once I put him in his place but other than that we use to be friends and when I got back into town from living in New Jersey I ran into him and we hung out a few times.

It started to stop which was fine by me, I was working and doing stuff on my own and he would call once in awhile and we would kind of set stuff up, but that day would come and no sign of him not even a phone call. It happened a couple of times and I washed my hands of the whole situation. So know that he has free time on his hands he thinks I should be free to spend it with him. FUCK NO!!!

Anyways it's stopping for EVER now and I am glad and so is BigDaddy.

Update: I just called his cell phone and left a rather lengthy message explaining the whole thing to him. Then I get a call from his work, so I answer it he tells me he saw that I left a message and that he didnt know how to open his message box on his cell phone, ya whatever. So I told him I didnt want to hang out with him anymore and to spend time with his girlfriend and that I was not there just to be someone to hang out with when he needed one. He said... "Thats's cool."

It was a short straight to the point conversation and I told him if he showed up at my apartment again with out giving me fair warning. I will take matters into my own hands. He got the drift and said good bye. Thank God. I feel relieved.

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